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Launching March 2023 - The complete Strong Men'd System tailored for your success. Access the tools, systems and strategies used by high performers to overcome personal, relationship and financial struggle, create success and significance in their lives without sacrificing their status. Combining a tailored course coupled with structured group sessions and individualised accountability to deliver an understanding of what is behind your current state, the mechanics and mindset to begin the process of moving forward, the implementation strategies for success and the accountability and the support to achieve it.

Backed by science, forged through action.

Find out more information or register for early bird/foundation member access below.

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For high performance, high pressure and/or high profile individuals who have either experienced, or are on the cusp of losing control. Whether on the brink of a public fall from grace, career/business collapse, loss of family, loss of finances, potential criminal activity, reputation loss, or staring down the deepest rock bottom.

Start with a 'Brutal Breakthrough' identifying the extent of the damage and root cause of the issues, before 'tactical troubleshooting’ to arrest behaviour/s either immediately or as quickly as possible. We then build and implement a 'deep scale strategy', to provide greater confidence in long term lasting success - without the sacrifice.


Masters level education meets Mt. Druitt manner makes Gary as adept to the boardroom as the bar room, using his lived experience to convert the academic to the actual. His vulnerable delivery and ‘tested on me’ approach to dealing with the struggles high achievers often face in silence gives him a connection to the audience that is unobtainable for many in this field.

Gary's brutally honest, no holds barred account of his lived experience, acquired knowledge and expertise, and proven strategies for success are designed to inform, inspire and innovate modern understanding of the role of mental strength in peak performance, the pitfalls of high pressure, high profile and high performance individuals and industries, and strategies to overcome overwhelm before it gets out of control.

Available for Keynote, Conference or Corporate Speaking and Corporate Consulting and Strategy


“Every now and then a distinctive voice on life, strife and success emerges and Gary is just that voice.” –Gerry Robert, International Bestselling Author of The Millionaire Mindset

Once responsible for the protection of the highest office in the land, Gary Fahey’s 10-year silent battle with depression and gambling addiction cost him $2 million, his career, his reputation and very nearly his life. Turning the fight OF his life into a fight FOR his life, Gary embarked on a journey of discovery, trial and error, research, understanding, (some pain) and ultimately great success. Externally Bulletproof, Internally Brittle shares the blow-by-blow strategies that shifted a life of desperation… into a life of purpose. More importantly, the book has been carefully authored to ensure that ANYONE can implement these simple strategies for positive and permanent results. Whether you are bouncing off rock bottom or on the edge of greatness, Gary’s Tested On Me philosophy provides a unique perspective of formal training with lived experience to take you from where you are now… to where you want to be.

About us

Strong Men'd is BUILT DIFFERENTLY. Built by men who have LIVED IT, LEARNED IT and EARNED IT. Men who have been there, who understand and can help. Strong Men'd was created because we've been where you're at. We've bounced off rock bottom desperate for answers, and we've stood on the edge of greatness searching for success. We've FOUND the answers to take you from where you are now to where you want to be.

Backed by science, Strong Men'd sessions are built through experience, knowledge and success. We have worked with, studied under and learned from experts the world over in strategic intervention, neuroscience, counselling, NLP, leadership, peak performance, business and success. And we have put it to work. First on ourselves, then hundreds of success stories. Will YOU be next??

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Not Just Changing Lives.

5 Star Support. 5 Star Success.

''I have a whole new mindset. My relationship with (wife) and the kids is the best it's ever been. I'm starting to see results thanks to you. I really want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for what you have done for me''

– A.M. Client since May 2022

How we help

Our experienced, qualified and committed counsellors, coaches and consultants offer:

Crisis Intervention - Tactical Troubleshooting

Life doesn't always go to plan. One day you feel like the King of the castle and the next, you feel like the walls are crumbling around you.

Whether you feel like one wheel is off the rails or in the midst of a complete derailment, high performance, high potential and high pressure men are at high risk of burning the castle down.

Strong Men'd crisis intervention is results focused, brutally honest and works with you to create STRAIGHT-UP STRATEGIES to get you back on track and firing on all cylinders.

Simple test. If you are not sure whether you are OK, contact us and have a chat. If you KNOW you need it, reach out. It can't hurt. 

Peak performance and success

Coaching - Breakthrough and Blueprint

Strong Men'd Coaching is reserved for those committed to NEXT LEVEL growth. Men who are doing 'OK' but know they can be so much more. We take all the experience of 20 plus years in high performance fields to work with you on creating a custom system, strategy and accountability program to take you from where you are now to where you want to be.

Strong Men'd Coaching delivers LIFE-ALTERING results.

Availability is limited. You will be required to invest time, money and effort - without excuses - into YOURSELF in order to achieve NEXT LEVEL results. Are YOU worth it? 

Simple test. I am doing OK, but I know I have so much more to give, I just don't know what to do next and I need someone to hold me accountable. Get in touch and have a chat. Next level is waiting

The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new

- Socrates

Our clients love their success

“I wouldn’t be here if I hadn’t come across you, so a massive thanks to you for giving me the strength and the tools to work on me, and also the support” - N.W.

Overcoming depression, anxiety, addiction, ptsd

"Thank you for the courage and the tools you are giving me each day to get up and start to make a change in my life" - A.M.

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